Pain that makes you suffer and pain that changes you. In life we'll go through a lot of challenges. full of ups and downs. Even the society and some that surround as will try to pull as back but the important thing is not letting their opinion stop us. 

Don't let other's opinion define you. No greats have an easy past. The only time you lose is when you stop and give up. Have a wider perspective in life. Learn to see opportunity in difficulties.