Ladies and Gents, the true glow - up does not lie to finding someone who will love your dark corners but it's finally loving yourself after you've neglected it for so long. For a long time, I thought it was always going to be about finding someone who will fix you for whatever it is that's destroying you, for whatever demons that's inside of you but fuck that, it's 2020 and this year has literally opened our eyes and we are finally addressing the emotional problem we are always trying to cover up and numb. 

I was the type of person that will not jump into a new relationship without moving on from the other person but what I failed to notice was I only move on from the person, not the baggage and the traumas that come along with it and it always shows on my relationships towards other people and some circumstances in my past that led me to just simply heal.

I'm not an expert but I'm solely speaking from my experiences but here it is.


Step 1: Find yourself

A lot of people are in denial with themselves, little do they know that they're only projecting this image for others to see that they are happy when in reality they don't. Finding yourself isn't only about traveling alone and doing things alone, I did that and called it "Soul searching" I've been searching for myself within cities I step into, within the people who I allow to be in my life, in denial that it is really within me that I am searching for. 


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