Do you ever have an inclination that every other person in your life is now in a steady relationship aside from you, ending up asking why you despite everything have not discovered the one individual you will spend an amazing remainder with? In spite of being effective, alluring, enchanting, and monetarily wealthy, you despite everything can't locate the opportune individual to settle down with.Still dumbfounded why you are left alone? Check out these five reasons why finding love is too difficult.

1. YOU'RE LOOKING IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES
Teenagers nowadays are fond of using social media as a way of communicating. With such technology, people tend to chat strangers and in teenagers' cases, flirting might be common. Finding love might be hard if there's no physical affection, you may not know the real feelings that you have for that person you are chatting. Thus, no interaction in physical term is occurring, you are set to imagine the person you talk to on how he/she acts, that may not be the reality you are expecting. Places as well such as bars, parties and events may not be the perfect place to find love since people you get along aren't the people you will always encounter. 

2. YOU DON'T GIVE PEOPLE ENOUGH CHANCES
Heads up! Open your eyes! There may be lots of people wanting your attention. Give every person who's brave enough to admit how he /she likes you a chance to prove their sincerity. Don't focus on someone who already left you, Let yourself open to know every individual, give them chance but always keep your standard on point.

3. YOU HAVEN'T PRACTICE SELF-LOVE YET
Self-love is your secret weapon to living a fulfilling life. That’s because your inner world creates your outer world. Self-love creates boundaries that protects you from suffering a huge heartache. Learn to love yourself before getting into relationship, in this way, you will realize the care you need and deserve in a relationship. Those who don't practice self-love tend to rely solely on their partner which leads to unhealthy relationship. Most important thing about having self love? is that you create a stable mental health.

4. YOU'RE PLAYING THE COMPARISON GAME
Do you still miss your ex? Is he/she still on your mind? Those who compare their dates to their exes are often harder to reach and unable to communicate with someone new. They may see their dates as their exes projecting its characteristics and not truly knowing their date who they are. Important rule is that never ever date someone new if you're still not over with your ex.

5. IT'S NOT YOUR TIME YET
Everything has its perfect timing.You may have been trying to keep your head above the waters for a while. Dating every now and then but still have the feeling of loneliness? not contented? and even satisfied? Then you may not be loving yourself enough as well as this may not be the perfect timing for you. Don't rush love! It will come to you the best way and time possible. Set aside love first if you think that it keeps on falling into a failed realtionship. Focus more on individual growth, in that way you are equipping yourself to be better for the future lover that will come. 

Love is all around the corner! Family and Friends can give love that you need. Dont rush into having a partner! right time will come, dont stress out on why you are not in a relationship. Remember, if you feel like you are not loved, Family and friends are always there, But don't forget that someone who truly loved you even when you are still not born yet, God.