Love is sometimes not just about the attraction at first sight. It is not defined by the butterflies in the stomach we felt because of a gaze. It is not the feeling of a melting heart nor the smile that curves on your lips with the sight of her. 
Loving, sometimes, is just being with someone and listening to them as they talk, and feel the comfortability in a snap. Talking with different people is too hard, there are different barriers such as the language and the cultural background, and even the philosophy that dictates their way of life is a barrier too. However, if you meet someone who can translate the vague symbols in your head the way you innerly define it, when they speaks the language that you speak so there's no need for you to explain yourself, and when conversing with them feels like random music notes turning into a Beethoven Symphony, you know it's real.