Ask yourself first:  Why do you want to learn how to code?  Take a few moments to think about the real reasons, be honest to yourself. Are you trying to learn for big promotion or want to develop either create something? Your answer can help determine which programming language(s) you should master. Choose the right or best language, if you’re wondering on what are the top programming languages, Python since Python is more highly productive as compared to other programming languages like C++ and Java, on the other hand Python has simple programming syntax. Followed by C, Java and C++. 
Don’t just try to watch tutorial nor read articles about programming, try to think of your own algorithm by doing some codes, you’ll learn by doing it. Little by little you are improving, just trust the process. As you go on keep a long patience, everything is difficult in the beginning but you’ll get through it. 

Challenge yourself by creating mini projects or trying some coding challenge, you can visit these following sites.
a)	Hackerrank.com
b)	CodeChef.com
c)	W3resource.com

It is only the beginning, sooner or later you can just sit back and relax because after all this time your hardships and effort will bloom, I repeat believe on yourself and trust the process.