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So It's 1:43am and I am still not sleeping. I keep on thinking on things that I should do to maximize the time that I am awake and be productive but too much ideas come into my mind and I can't decided which one to do first so I will set those aside for the next day maybe. But I'm still not sleepy, what should I do? 

hmmm..

Aha! I got it I'll just do this instead.

Hi All I am Leilo and I decided that today I will impart some lessons that I learned in life through experience. I am hoping that whoever needs to hear these advice will see them so don't be shy, share this to your love ones. May it be by sharing this post or by word of mouth, anything is fine as long as it reaches them.

So okay shall we start? ( yeah I know not so smooth transition, I'm still working on it. :) )

#1 Learn to forgive yourself.

Learn to forgive yourself. I used to have a hard time with doing this before, I was someone who constantly wants to improve on myself but always gets disappointed when  things don't go my way or If I keep on failing on doing the things that I want to accomplish. I hated that feeling and whenever failure comes knocking on my door, the hate and disappointment that I have for myself gets bigger and bigger to the point that I don't think that I can do it anymore.  And when that happens I just give up and not try anymore or I still chose to continue on doing it, I won't enjoy it anymore and it will feel like a burden to me. That was my case for almost 15 years of my life and yes that started when I was still a teenager.  I honestly thought that I cannot improve on anything and that I'll just remain like that maybe because I was not too smart to absorb all of those skills and knowledge, but fast forward to 15 years after experiencing hardships in life, caused by bad decision making very low self esteem , I finally realized what was missing, why I felt like I have not improved on something or why do I always feel that I can't be better in anything I want, It was because I never really forgived myself not being able to reach my expectations I had for myself during those times. You see if you to forgive yourself on things that you can't do as expected, its like you are reminding yourself that you are Human and that you are allowed to fail and come back up again to try and try until you do succeed. And with every failure you experience you learn and then eventually you use those lessons that you learned to hone your skills and knowledge. From there you'll just keep on going until you accomplished whatever you set yourself to do. 

By forgiving yourself , you understand that no one is perfect and that failure will only be a failure if you don't learn from them.

So uhmm, that's it for my first advice I hope can help someone struggling with this at the moment or the future. Don't worry you got this, there is no problem that you cannot overcome.

So ahh, yeah that's it ..( I really need to improve on this transition thing hehehe..) Anyways if you want to see more of this kind of content just leave a comment. Or if you want to ask me for advice about something, feel free to comment also, I will be more than happy to partake some of my insights  to you.

That is all for now, Thank you for reading. :) Stay safe !