People are set in the notion of seeking in others the missing piece in order to avoid the feeling of insufficiency within themselves. With this pursuit, we are often misguided and tend to give everything to the person we love. It sometimes led to misunderstanding,  false hopes and conflicts. When loving someone, we should also know our limitations. Before loving someone else, we must also learn to love and care about ourselves. Love is a strength but it could be our downfall once applied on the wrong side.