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My Pain will be my win!

The first thing that I asked myself when I decided to write this was “am I good enough to share to the world about what it takes to be optimistic in this chaotic world?” as I tried to contemplate harder from the core, I have come to a realization that our world at the moment is already filled with a lot of disturbances that hinder us from finding the true meaning of life. 

In today’s world, a lot of us are too preoccupied with many things - financial issues, family problems, fake news, social media insecurities, and etc. because of those negativity that surrounded us, We tend to forget that we still have a life to nourish, a soul to clean, and a heart to beat. Sometimes, we just allow ourselves to cry at the corner in a fetal position and shutdown ourselves away from the beauty of this world and started blaming the world for all the misfortunes that have come in our lives. Then, without knowing that we have hurt not just the person in us, but also those people who believes in us. Remember, that human as we are, we are vulnerable to different elements that come along our way. But, we are created to have a mind to understand and to create methods to protect us from falling into pieces. 

 Undeniably, It is a fact that every day is a challenging day for mankind and that includes the different pains we have experienced – physical pain, spiritual pain, emotional pain and all those crazy pains that has inflicted us from head to toe! So, the next step that we have to consider is to ask ourselves if we will allow those painful experiences and horrible factors to contain us from deep within or to make those negativity as a tool to renew our lives and learn from those experiences. After all, life is all about choosing what is best for our own personal growth so that we can learn how to fly high above like an eagle soaring the blue sky as if telling the world that I own this beautiful land. 


Therefore, it is up to us if we continue to dwell with the negativity of this world or to continue living a peaceful life amidst all odds. By choosing what is right for ourselves, we allow to continue maintaining our inner peace which is good for ourselves both in heart and mind. Thus, by doing so, we learn to radiate that peaceful aura to others in which they will also have the power to share that positivism towards other. Isn’t it wonderful to think that we can share some powerful message to everyone by just doing simple acts that can maintain a wonderful society that is filled with unwanted things that can smashed us into pieces.
 
I always believe that the mind is powerful! Therefore, it is vital for us to nourish our minds be feeding it with a lot of positivity. Because it can either lift us up into someone else or it can either bring us down into a dark dungeon! However, I also believe that such action is too difficult to do most particularly in this modern world where in technology has overcome us. So, what should we do? For me, we should learn how to focus first and to reflect from deep within us everyday including all the misfortunes in our lives for instance the emotional stress caused by this pandemic which has comprised our lives and all the problems that has inflected us leading to a painful life! Well, one thing I have learned lately was the mere fact that problems will always be there. Always remember that “Problems add a sense of meaning and importance to our life. Thus to duck our problems is to lead a meaningless existence” said Mark Manson in his book – The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck.
As I share these words to everyone, I hope that everyone will learn how to be courageous in every aspect of our lives. Never shut down the beauty in you nor never stop in winning your battle. After all, this shared world is for everyone to learn and to build a foundation of winners!

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  • Kyungg
    Sep 28, 2020 13:19
    Let's all be winners🙏❤️