There are some people who wants to be fully accepted by their society but they refuse to change their bad attitudes towards the other member of the society. 

True is the saying that you must not change yourself just to fulfill the needs and sense of satisfaction of other people, but in order for you to be with them, you must adapt, just like a chameleon changing it's color to adapt to his environment. We, as members of the same society do not require you to be like us, but if you want to be with us, you need to adjust. 

The society and it's member will never adjust to satisfy you.