Let's accept the fact that aside from the face, one of the standards that people look in a person is his or her body. Nowadays, some people criticized one's body if s/he has a gigantic body or teeny body. In the eyes of a society that has a mindset like this, you are not beautiful anymore, or sexy, or girlfriend/boyfriend material, or wife/husband material.   But love, keep in mind that we are beautiful just the way we are.


And for the people who always body shame other individuals who have those kinds of body please be sensitive. Please understand that this body-shaming of yours can affect one's holistic health of a person. Please realize that those sharp words will have a huge impact on one's life and can kill him/her.


I, myself, experienced this kind of body shaming. I reached the point where I don't want to eat anymore resulting in an eating disorder and got anxiety that almost result in depression. And I'm thankful because I have friends and family who guided and always got my back in a situation like this. And to those people who also experiencing this kind of feeling, always remember that you are beautiful, you are sexy, accept and embrace your flaws because nobody is perfect. Especially, always pray and seek His guidance. Don't listen to what people told you, no one can judge you but yourself. Keep in mind that it's your life, you will decide over it. Always remember that you are loved. You're beautiful just the way you are.