We all want to be happy, but the real question is that "how?". The real answer is "YOU" ---"YOURSELF" because self-love is so important, that you can't love someone-at least FULLY  if you haven't learned to love yourself, It's the nature of balance and we have to deal with it.  What you  Give is what you get :), HANG ON THERE, WE CAN DO THIS, IT'S NORMAL FOR US TO STRUGGLE, CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY :)